My father in law is telling me that it is impossible to have an incompatibility between these two, and all I went through was for nothing. When the doctor in charge of the NICU explained what he did, he said something about that when they gave her the type A transfusion it was like feeding her my blood and more molecules break down more. When they gave her type O, I was concerned because of the ABO incompatibility. My doctor said she can have type O and that there was nothing more for the blood to fight. Is that true? Please can you explain this to me in a way I can understand. Tanya, Bellingham, WA
A. It would only be impossible to have a reaction like this if you were type A and the baby was type O.
Remember that there are three main blood types, including types A, B, and O. Since babies inherit their blood type from each parent, it is possible for a mother and baby to have different blood types. For example, a mother who is type O and a father who is type A could have a baby who is type A.
With an ABO incompatibility, a mother makes antibodies against her baby's blood type. It doesn't happen if the mother and baby have the same blood type or if the baby is type O, since in that case, there is usually nothing to make antibodies against.
These antibodies, if the mother is type O, can cross the placenta and can break down the baby's red blood cells after she is born, leading to jaundice and anemia. This condition is called Hemolytic Disease of the Newborn or erythroblastosis fetalis, and it can also be caused by having an Rh incompatibility between a baby and mother.
If a mother is type A or B and the baby has a different blood type other than type O, she can still make antibodies against the baby's red blood cells. These antibodies are too large to cross the placenta though, and so don't usually lead to any problems.
Although many children with an ABO incompatibility do not need any treatment at all, some do require extensive phototherapy if the baby is very jaundiced. This is usually continued until the mother's antibodies are cleared from the baby's body, which happens on its own after a few days.
An ABO incompatibility that leads to jaundice, anemia, and the need for transfusions can definitely happen if the mother is type O and the baby is either type A or B.
Why did she get two different types of blood transfusions? The first two were likely exchange transfusions, in which much of the baby's blood is removed and type O blood is given back. If they simply gave the baby more type A blood at that time, your antibodies would have just broken it down more.
So I think that you may have the types of transfusions that she got backwards. Are you sure that they gave her the type A transfusion first and then later gave a type O transfusion?
Keep in mind that an exchange transfusion is much different than a traditional transfusion, where you are simply given extra blood.
Why did she then get another transfusion? The last transfusion was likely a regular transfusion with type A blood that matched her own blood type. This would usually be needed if she got so anemic from the ABO incompatibility that she needed extra blood. By this time, your antibodies were likely out of her system, so there was no worry that she would break down this transfused blood.
If she really got a type O transfusion later on, I guess that it could be possible that they just didn't have any type A blood available to give her. Keep in mind that type O- blood is the 'universal donor' type of blood, because it can be given to people who are type A, B, or O.
If you still aren't sure what happened to your daughter, it would likely be best to call the NICU and have the NICU attending explain things to you again. You could also ask your Pediatrician to request the records from the NICU and review them for you.