This is another controversial topic. Some parents strongly believe in a 'family bed,' with everyone sleeping together, while others strongly believe that their kids should sleep in their own bed. Are kids that sleep alone more independent? Do kids that sleep with their parents feel more loved and secure? In general, the answer to both questions is probably no. Whether or not your child is independent and feels loved and secure likely depends on many more factors than just where he sleeps at night. So find what works best for you and your family so that everyone gets a good night sleep.