"Getting a second opinion" is a popular phrase that parents often mention to each other.
Unfortunately, although it is sometimes important to get a second opinion when your child is sick or when you disagree with your pediatrician, you shouldn't misuse this tool.
How can you misuse getting a second opinion?
Isn't it always better to get see another doctor when you think you need to?
While it usually is good to get a second opinion, you should usually think about why are seeking a second opinion first. Is your child not getting better after multiple visits? Does your child have a complicated problem and needs to see a specialist? Do you simply disagree with your pediatrician?
The main problem with a second opinion, is what do you do when the two opinions are the opposite to each other. Do you get a third opinion? Do you go with the doctor who is telling you what you want to hear?
Your Pediatrician as a Second Opinion
One of the most overlooked places to look for a second opinion is your own pediatrician. There are very often more than one right way to do things and if you don't agree with your pediatrician's plan of care for your child, don't be hesitant to ask questions and see if there is something else you could try first. If there isn't, at least you could hear your pediatricians explanation of why and have a better understanding of things.
Getting a Second Opinion
In some circumstances, if you aren't getting answers from the pediatrician that you are seeing, then you may need a second opinion from another pediatrician or a pediatric specialists. For example, if your child has severe eczema and his rash isn't responding to traditional treatments, then it might be a good idea to see a pediatric dermatologist. Or if your child has a heart murmur, then she might need to be evaluated by a pediatric cardiologist.
