Answer We don't hear about kids not wanting to wear glasses as much as we used to. The whole Harry Potter craze has made wearing glasses 'cool' for many kids. In fact, some pediatricians have found that some kids are failing their vision test on purpose in order to get glasses. If they are faking, it is usually discovered once they get to an optometrist or pediatric ophthalmologist, but they may be able to fool the vision screening tests that many pediatricians use in their office.
For an older child who really doesn't want to wear glasses, contact lens are a good option. Kids typically have to wait until they are teenagers to get contact lenses though. Younger children usually aren't thought to be responsible enough to put them in, take them out, clean, and disinfect their lenses without their parents help.
One study concluded that kids from age eight to eleven years 'are able to independently care for daily disposable contact lenses and wear them successfully.' The researchers did suggest that these younger children be prescribed daily disposable contact lenses so that they didn't have to clean and disinfect their lenses each day.
You may also have to consider how responsible your child is though. If she isn't a very responsible nine year old and doesn't take good care of her things, then contact lenses may not be right for her. If she is responsible, then you may want to talk to her eye doctor to see if contact lenses may be a good option for her.
If contact lenses aren't an option, then you may let her pick new frames that she may be more comfortable wearing. And help her to understand why it is important to wear glasses and the benefits they provide.
If nothing else works, and she still doesn't want to wear her glasses, you might consider watching a Harry Potter movie with her.
Circle LensesAlthough contact lenses that are prescribed by your eye doctor might be appropriate for your older child or teen, other types of contact lenses are not a good idea.
Cosmetic contact lenses, including decorative contact lenses and circle lenses, which can be ordered on the internet, but which aren't approved for use in the United States, are not safe and should be avoided. The American Academy of Ophthalmology states that 'Inflammation and pain can occur from improperly fitted, over-the-counter lenses and lead to more serious problems including corneal abrasions and blinding infections.'
American Academy of Ophthalmology News Release. Statement from the American Academy of Ophthalmology regarding Circle Lenses July 2010. Accessed July 2010.
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The New York Times. What Big Eyes You Have, Dear, but Are Those Contacts Risky? Accessed July 2010.
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