Bullies
Bullying is a big problem among school age children. Since victims of bullies usually don't seek help, it is important to look for signs that your child is being bullied, including trying to avoid going to school, having a change in his usual personality, or a change in his grades. Talking about bullying with your child may also help to prevent your child from becoming a bully or it can let him know that he should tell an adult if he sees another child being bullied. For more information: Bullying and Children.Drug Abuse
It is also very important to begin communicating with your child to help prevent them from picking up bad habits, such as the use of tobacco, alcohol and drugs (including the use of inhalants, aerosols and glue, and newer drugs like GHB and Ecstasy which many kids think are safe). Children whose parents talk to them regularly are at much less risk for experimenting with cigarettes, alcohol and drugs. Teach them how to avoid situations where drugs, alcohol, or cigarettes are present and to choose friends who also choose not to use these substances. Emphasize to them that these substances can hurt them, can make them sick, can cause decrease lung function and problems playing sports, and that it is OK to say no. Also, do not let them attend parties that are unsupervised by adults and let your child know that they can communicate openly with you about these difficult subjects. Watch for the warning signs of drug use, including a sudden change in your child's behavior or personality, decreased performance in school, or changes in which friends they associate with.For more information: Substance Abuse.
Medical Problems
Does your child have a chronic medical condition that may need to be addressed at school, such as asthma, food allergies, diabetes, seizures, etc? Do you have his medications available at school? Does the school have a full time health professional? If not, who is responsible for health related student problems? Is there a backup plan in place if this designated person isn't available? Does the school have a treatment plan and know what to do if there is a worsening of his condition? Are your emergency contact numbers current?Having regular contact with the school nurse and/or other school personnel is a good idea, especially if your child has a serious, or potentially life threatening condition.
For more information: Pediatric Diseases and Conditions.
